Tuesday, January 8, 2013

New Year

Last year we were truly blessed with all that came our way.  I’m hoping that this year brings as much joy and excitement as well.  I think the highlight of this year will be getting sealed to one another!  The cancellation letter was a doozy getting done and turned in.  It seemed like one thing happened after another of meeting with the Bishop to hand it over.  It was almost comical with how each week something would come up and we would have to reschedule.  The last attempt to meet with him happened to be the Sunday before Lilly was born.  Sure enough, that little girl wanted to come and she wasn’t going to let my meeting with the Bishop get in the way.  So again, another two weeks went by.

I’m glad to say that the letter was finally submitted and all the paper work was turned in.  I’m grateful that when I handed in my letter, the Bishop already had the other parties as well.  It was a slight relief knowing they were waiting on mine, not his.  Now it’s just a waiting game.  I am so grateful that we went ahead and got married without waiting for the cancellation to go through.  It’s a long and hard process that I’m sure people don’t realize or expect it to be. 

The hardest part is knowing that we are not sealed right now; not because of our actions or our choices.  (Well, it was our choice not to wait on the cancellation.)  More than anything we want to be married for eternity and have those blessing in our marriage.  It’s been a hard process waiting.  Waiting is hard when you have to rely on so many others to get the work done.  It’s hard not knowing where things are at and how long it will take.  I guess this is where our faith comes in.

I know in my heart that we did the right thing.  We prayed about waiting and spoke with our Bishop but it didn’t feel right for whatever reason.  Maybe Lilly was that reason.  She sure is a patient baby now… but not when it came to her coming to our family!  She came a lot sooner then we planned!  If we could go back, I wouldn’t change a thing.  It’s been the best year of my life! Knowing now, that not only will JC and I kneel across the alter, but we will have our beautiful daughter with us as well, is an incredible feeling. 

One of my moms (I have a few) explained to me the day that they had their son sealed to their family.  The spirit I felt when she spoke of that moment was unreal.  It was the strength and love I needed to feel at that moment for our similar situation.  It's one thing knowing your future children will be sealed to you the moment they make it to earth, but what an experience it will be to actually have Lilly there with us.  We are all so anxious for that day to come!


Well, it’s that time again for school to start!  I shouldn’t complain since we had an awesome 3 weeks together without school.  The holiday break was fantastic!  I loved spending endless hours with JC and going to do fun filled activities together.

 Some highlights include: 

               Late nights watching movies.
               Enjoying breakfast, lunch and dinner together.
               Family Parties.
               Going sledding followed by the Melting Pot! LOVE date days!
               And simply being with one another!

To kick off the upcoming semester we went to Zupas and the Hobbit on Saturday.  JC is still at Westminster and working at eBay.  He just received a promotion at work which changed his work hours so a couple nights a week he only works until about 6:00 or 4:30.  He is such a hard worker and I’m so proud of all the accomplishment he is continually getting!




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